In the late ‘70s and early ‘80s, the punk band X rescued Los Angeles from the clutches of the bloated, “mellow,” stadium-rock that had become its signature sound. Fronted by a married couple, Exene Cervenka and John Doe, who shared lead vocals and songwriting credits, X became known for raw harmonies, hillbilly/punk music and poetic lyrics on romantic love and domestic strife. When the band parted amicably in 1988, they left behind a score of critically acclaimed albums, a marriage, and a generation of younger bands influenced by their sound.
But if anyone worried for the fate of X’s lone female survivor, Exene Cervenka, she ably proved her solo talents with two albums, “Old Wives’ Tales” and “Running Sacred.” She’s remarried to actor Viggo Mortensen and they have a young son. Most recently, X has reformed and they are working on a new album. In town to headline a benefit concert to “Ban the Dam” at the Beacon, Exene finished the soundcheck and hurried over to the Natural History Museum to buy a gift for her son.
CENTRAL PARK WEST ON THE WAY TO THE MUSEUM OF NATURAL HISTORY
Lynn Geller I read somewhere that the writer, Michael Blake, dedicated Dances with Wolves to you?
Exene Cervenka Yes, he did!
LG That’s an honor. Why?
EC Because he stayed at my house a lot when he was writing it. He didn’t have anywhere to live and we’re friends.
LG I read about his struggle and thought it was great he got rewarded for all the hard work. So few people do.
EC And he’s using his power quite well. He’s into literacy and saving wild mustangs in Nevada.
LG The other day I came across Adulterers Anonymous, the book you wrote with Lydia Lunch. Are you still writing poetry?
EC Of course, I’m still writing poetry. What is poetry? It’s just words; I’m a writer. I don’t think there’s any difference in writing songs, or poetry, or letters. I’ve written letters that were turned into songs—two, as a matter of act.
LG I noticed that you and Lydia would add lines to each other’s poems, as if you were passing them back and forth.
EC We lived right near each other, so we sat around and did things together, and then we had some that were already finished.
THE MUSEUM GIFT SHOP
LG You’re here to do the benefit and then you’ll be flying right back, isn’t that exhausting?
EC Not really. You’re in an airplane, then a hotel, you do a soundcheck, you go to a museum, get something to eat. It’s not that bad. I’d be more exhausted right now if I was home with my son, Henry.
LG How old is he?
LG You’re living in L.A. now?
EC I’m living in Venice, which is part of L.A., but near the ocean. L.A. is like New York, there are all different factions and unfair labor practices going on, refugees from our wars in Central America and all these people out of work. It’s depressing.
LG It’s painful. We should get back soon. Are you the headlining act?
EC Yeah, we’re the loudest band. [to clerk] You know those blue dinosaurs with the fins down there, could I have one of those?
CENTRAL PARK WEST ON THE WAY TO THE BEACON THEATER
LG That place is great for kids’ presents. Do you want to have more kids?
EC Right now my work is really important and I don’t want to give up any more time than I already have.
LG I wouldn’t have a kid without the right mate for child-rearing. It seems selfish to start without that.
EC It’s really hard to have a relationship when it’s a man and a woman trying to decide how to raise a child. Sometimes, I think it’s easier for a woman to have a child and a support system. In what’s considered pre-history, women raised children as a unit and did a lot of the cultural stuff for the tribe. To me, that makes sense. People aren’t meant to be isolated in two-person households, a male-dominated, male and female household. People weren’t designed to live that way. I consider things tribal in my life.
LG Is that the way you live?
EC I don’t live that way enough, but I live that way somewhat.
LG Personally, when I’m in love, I want a monogamous relationship. It’s too distracting and insane to bring other people into it. Then, you’re either lying, guilty or jealous. And I hate jealousy.
EC If you weren’t male-defined to the extent that we all are, you wouldn’t be as threatened. You’d find a way to deal with infidelity. You don’t own this person, why do you want to control them? It’s when, in a part of your mind, you’re going, “Yeah, but he doesn’t love me and he’s going to have sex with this other girl and she’s younger and prettier and she’s new.” That’s very frightening. But if you were secure, you’d just say, “What the hell?”
BACKSTAGE AT THE BEACON THEATER
LG In the bigger sense, if you love someone, they’re not replaceable. But it’s hard to be philosophical in the here and now. Uh-oh, look how many journalists are here. Where should we go?
EC Let’s sit on the stairs. I was thinking about this Clarence Thomas / Anita Hill controversy. It’s good that that stuff’s coming out in the open. I got fired from two jobs because I wouldn’t have sex with someone or play the game of pretending I liked their hands on my waist. And I was a high school dropout, so a job was pretty hard to come by. It forced me to get into the arts. And not everybody has that option, to just get out of the job market. The other day, a friend of mine said he wished we could just get rid of the gender thing and refer to people as people, which to me is another tragedy. Biological differences are a necessary and understandable reality. The problem is, the differences become the issues, so there’s a polarization instead of a celebration of differences. I went through a period of intense man-hating, which I came out of successfully. But I believe women are going to be fighting pretty hard in the future. It doesn’t make me happy to think of the men I know and love becoming estranged from me—I don’t think they will. But most men are either in love with, idolize the female mystery—or they don’t understand it and hate it. But eventually, the white American males, even the ones we love, will have to change…
LG Most people will do absolutely anything but change, especially men. They’ll do anything. They’ll travel, read a million books, go to lectures, retreats; they’ll even go into therapy, but if it means real change, they’ll decide it’s the wrong philosophy or the wrong shrink. They’re afraid. Change the basic modus operandi and who knows what might happen? They don’t want the vulnerability and you can’t blame them. It’s scary. Someone might let you down, abandon you in your weakened state. I remember, when I was going through a big break-up, a friend of mine said, “You have to be like a little squirrel in a relationship. You have to put away your own cache of nuts so you’ll have your own supply if you break up.” Maybe that sounds defensive or sneaky, but I listened. I became like Scarlett O’Hara, “I shall never go hungry again.”
EC But it’s not a material thing, it’s an emotional thing.
LG I love that song on your second solo album, “Slave Labor,” about your heart being your boss and not wanting to “quit your job.” It made me want to make a T-shirt for the women I know, with the phrase, “It’s not my station,” on the front. That’s something waiters say to explain why they don’t or can’t take your order. But I wonder why we feel compelled to give in and give it up to men?
EC Because we compensate for what we feel are our gross inadequacies, thinking, “If I give everything up, cook, clean and sexually I’m the perfect mate, never jealous, then there’s no way this person will leave me.” And then they go, “Stop smothering me!”
A FEW WEEKS LATER, VIA THE PHONE
LG Boy, since we last talked, I’ve gone about 20 blocks and you’ve been to Cairo, then back in the studio, and now you’re going to England. What are you going to do in London?
EC We’re just going to go there to work with a producer and see if he’s the right person for us. And just to get out of L.A. for a while, so we can be four people who live and work in the same place. Instead of driving to rehearsal and driving home, it’s kind of an intense X band thing.
LG When we talked last time, I didn’t realize that you were working on a new X album. How did that come about?
EC We always had it in the back of our minds, that we would do it again, but we didn’t know for sure when. We finally found the time to do it. It’s been about a year that we’ve been back together doing some shows and writing songs.
LG You have a record deal?
EC Yes, with Big Life Records, an English company. That’s another reason we’re going to England.
LG I know you took Henry to Cairo, are you bringing him to England?
EC No, not this time. It would defeat the purpose of the trip.
LG Does everyone in your band have kids?
EC No, just me and John.
LG It does make things harder professionally. I guess that’s something you have in common, being parents and musicians. He has a daughter?
EC Yeah, born the same day as Henry. And a baby.
LG I read that book you recommended, The Beauty Myth by Naomi Wolf. Did that influence you?
EC It influenced me a lot. More than listening to someone’s song… Women have to stop the competition. Liberation is liberation; and it’s for everybody, not just women. Anybody can objectify another human being, like anybody else can look up and respect another human being. You want to surround yourself with people, male and female, who don’t objectify each other. Men say, “Oh, come on, you look at men all the time.” And I say, “No, I never objectify men. Period. No qualifications. I don’t.”
LG You and your husband moved to Idaho for awhile right?
EC We have land in Idaho. But I can’t be happy just watching the vegetables grow. I can do that later, when I’m 60.
LG Both you and your husband have careers in fields that require collaboration, which usually involves living in or near an urban center. It’s hard having that creative impulse.
EC It’s hard wanting to live in the middle of the woods without electricity and also wanting to fly to England and make a record. You don’t know what you’re supposed to be doing. Maybe that simpler existence is a world of incredible insight where you’re plugged into a whole different kind of energy, maybe it’s calm because it is so simple. So you think you want to be running through the woods naked all the time, but you also want to change the world with your work, to be an artist.